Martin, I have to agree with you. Mine has also been of 'light switch' quality since day one. This morning was the 4th time I've adjusted it (18,600 miles), because it just seems to keep getting loose.
I've always tried to follow the FSM instructions to the letter, but those instructions don't really provide any confidence level that it's been done with the results they expect.
This morning, I just said screw it, and adjusted ALL the play out of the throttle, and the off to on transition is better than it's ever been. It didn't affect the idle, so I'll just leave it there.
There's still a huge jolt in second gear under some conditions, but nothing like it was. So far, 1st gear is where I see the most improvement.
Of course the real test will be down hill through some 10MPH switchbacks. I'll let you know after I try some of those.