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The connector you are looking for has 14 connections and 13 wires (one connection is NOT used but it is present in the connector). There will only be one connector with that number of connections and wires.
The wiring colors on the female side of the connector are:
Black / white
Black / Yellow
Green
Orange
Gray
Red / Black
Red / Blue
Red / Yellow
Blue / Yellow
Blue
Red / Green
Black (this is the wire you want to tap into)
Black / Red
Now on the other side of the connector, the male side, the colors are as follows, and are given in the same order as the side above:
Black / White
Black / Yellow
Green
Orange / Green
Gray
Red / Black
Red / Blue
Red / Yellow
Blue / Yellow
Brown
Orange
Red / Green (this is the wire that connects to the black wire on the other side of the circuit)
Green / White
The first color given is always the color of the wire, the second color is always a stripe on that wire. So a Red / Green wire is a red wire with a narrow band of green on it. A Green / Red wire is a green wire with a narrow band of red on it; they are not the same and you must read them correctly.
Find the connector with 14 pins (contacts, one not have wires connected to it) and 13 wires inside the rubber boot on the left side of the bike under the black fairing cover. Ignore any and all other connectors and wires, use ONLY the connector with 14 pins and 13 wires. Find the black wire, there IS only one black wire in that connector and it will be connected, through the connector, to the Red / Green wire on the other side of the connector. Cut into the black wire insulation and attach the NSS wire on the Rostra to the black wire on the bike. Do not cut and seperate the black wire, or if you do, reconnect them with the NSS wire. What you are going to make is a 'Y' connection where one wire, the NSS wire from the Rostra, connects to the black wire on that connector on the bike. Insulate the joint well with electrical tape.
The connectors under the boot don't look like the connector in the guide. Also, the only connector that has a black wire with white dots is a red "2 wire" connector. It has the black wire and a gray wire.