I understand the catching her in the act part, I have been an MP for almost 12 years. And no, she is not gonna be unsupervised in my house any more. Her husband and I had a chat this evening and he has seen some changes in her over the past month or so just like my wife and I have. My wife and I had spoken about her a couple weeks ago and made the decision not to let her watch the kids any more due to the fact that we thought she was having some issues with depression and showing signs of being bulimic. Her husband is trying to convince her that mental health counseling isn't a bad thing and she hasn't been very receptive. Who knows what will happen, hopefully she will accept the help that she needs.
No accusations, no name calling, no arguments, I am happy with how it went tonight and we are still on speaking terms. Lesson learned for my wife and I.......no more meds that aren't under lock and key.