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Title: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: jim snyder on June 18, 2011, 02:19:30 PM
Well we knew it was coming. We had to have our 21 year old Chiquaqua "Tiny" put to sleep this morning.
She had what appeared to be a stroke, and she lost control of her legs and could not stand up. This was really hard. This ol' gal had been with us longer than most marriages last. Naturally I cried like a baby and my head and my eyes feel like they are ready to explode. But I know she is not in pain anymore and I will see her again someday. Farewell my sweet Tiny.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: T Cro ® on June 18, 2011, 02:57:05 PM
Sorry for your loss pets have a way of worming their way into your heart. My childhood pet was a Tiny the same as yours she lived a good many years.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Excavator on June 18, 2011, 03:00:19 PM
Sorry about that Jim. My sheapard is 10 Years old w/hip displasia, I know it's just a matter of time, really dreading the day.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Steve in Sunny Fla on June 18, 2011, 04:01:16 PM
Sorry Jim. when you have pets I think you always know the day is coming, but it's not one to look forward to. Since all my cats started off as strays, I figure each day is better than they were having pre-adoption, but still... Steve
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Tele130 on June 18, 2011, 04:19:15 PM
Sorry for your loss Jim. No matter what some non pet owners may think, they are a family member. Just because they are an animal matters not, their loss is painful all the same. I'm like Steve. Saved our two cats (kittens when we got'em) were shelter rescues.  Took all of 10 min for them to be part of the family.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: MIST on June 18, 2011, 04:46:58 PM
Been there. Brings tears to my eyes remembering the day we had to make the decision to put Sparky down due to terminal health issues. Fourteen year old Miniature Schnauzer that thought he was the head of the family. I always told him he needed to get a job to help out with the mortgage since he seemed to own the house. The events of that day have been pushed to the far corners of my memory by the thoughts of the  many years of  love and companionship he brought to the family. Swore I'd never have another and have to go through that experience again. That lasted a couple of years until Hunter came along.

The pain will eventually subside but your loving memories will last a lifetime.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: OCK913 on June 18, 2011, 04:51:30 PM
My sincere condolances to you and your family. As a K9 handler for 15 years now I have lost several partners over time. For me, the attachment is indescribable. I spend more time with him than I do my family......he is with me at home and at work. We have been through life and death situations together and he is loyal to the core. I say this only to stress to you that I understand your pain and you have every right to feel it.

Trust in me my friend for I am your comrade.
 I will protect you with my last breath.
 When all others have left you
 And the loneliness of the night closes in,
 I will be at your side.
 
Together we will conquer all obstacles
 And search out those who might wish harm to others.
 All I ask of you is compassion,
 The caring touch of your hands.
 It is for you that I will selflessly give my life
 And spend my nights unrested.
 
Although our days together
 May be marked by the passing of the seasons.
 Know that each day at your side is my reward.
 My days are measured by
 The coming and going of your footsteps.
 I anticipate them at the opening of the door.
 You are the voice of caring when I am ill.
 The voice of authority over me when I’ve done wrong.
 Do not chastise me unduly
 For I am your right arm,
 The sword at your side.
 
I attempt to do only what you bid of me.
 I seek only to please you and remain in your favor.
 Together you and I shall experience
 A bond only others like you will understand.
 When outsiders see us together
 Their envy will be measured by their disdain.
 I will quietly listen to you
 And pass no judgement.
 Nor will your spoken words be repeated.
 I will remain ever silent,
 Ever vigilant, ever loyal.
 
And when our time together is done
 And you move on in the world,
 Remember me with kind thoughts and tales.
 For a time we were unbeatable,
 Nothing passed among us undetected.
 If we should ever meet again on another field
 I will gladly take up your fight.
 I am a Police Working Dog and together
 We are GUARDIANS of the NIGHT.
 author unknown

Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Makz58 on June 18, 2011, 05:01:18 PM
Sorry for your loss my wife and I are dog lovers. Remember all the good times and memories she gave you...When we lost our first one it broke our hearts. Then we got the second one and when she passed it broke our hearts again. This time we decided to just go out and get another and then another. Presently we have two...I decided to love them for the moment and when they passed get another one to love...Big tough guy here I bawled like a baby at each dog's passing.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Ron Dawg on June 18, 2011, 05:52:16 PM
Sorry for your loss Jim. Everytime we lose one, I swear that's the last one, it's just hard to lose a friend. My wife always, 'yeah right" and then I get another or two.  Hang in there.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: timmerz on June 18, 2011, 06:47:59 PM
Very, very hard to lose a pet...been there too many times, and will be going there again, too....my heart grieves with you, buddy!
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Boonedawg on June 18, 2011, 06:59:05 PM
You're giving me a special gift,
So sorrowfully endowed,
And through these last few cherished days,
Your courage makes me proud.
But really, love is knowing
When your best friend is in pain,
And understanding earthly acts
Will only be in vain.
So looking deep into your eyes,
Beyond, into your soul,
I see in you the magic, that will
Once more make me whole.
The strength that you possess,
Is why I look to you today,
To do this thing that must be done,
For it's the only way.
That strength is why I've followed you,
And chose you as my friend,
And why I've loved you all these years...
My partner 'til the end.
Please, understand just what this gift,
You're giving, means to me,
It gives me back the strength I've lost,
And all my dignity.
You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too.
So one last time, I breathe your scent,
And through your hand I feel,
The courage that's within you,
To now grant me this appeal.
Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady dog,
My pain and struggle done.
And don't despair my passing,
For I won't be far away,
Forever here, within your heart,
And memory I'll stay.
I'll be there watching over you,
Your ever faithful friend,
And in your memories I'll run,
...a young dog once again.

I hope this helps--Dan
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: jim snyder on June 18, 2011, 07:08:36 PM
Thanks Dan, you should have issued a klennex alert with that one. Very fitting.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Shadowofshoe on June 18, 2011, 07:18:30 PM

  My wife and I wish you peace as it is a awful loss


             Mike
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: booger on June 18, 2011, 07:27:49 PM
My condolences.

Losing a trusted friend is tough.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Boonedawg on June 18, 2011, 08:28:00 PM
I am an avid waterfowler, i've sent that one to many people. It's my favorite and so true! Time will help in the healing process.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: bbroj on June 19, 2011, 08:38:03 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss. Like many others here, I have experienced this pain and know no one can take it away, but it helps to know others sympathize. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Awaz on June 19, 2011, 09:05:22 PM
Very sorry for your loss.

My Cairn Terrier is sick right now. He has been through lot of tests already to figure out what is wrong. Vet is going to do one more test. He is only 4 years old. He has been sick over two months now.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: CrashKLRtoConnie on June 20, 2011, 12:34:35 AM
Jim

Sorry to hear of the passing of your friend. When my last dog died it took my wife and I almost 3 years + to get a new dog as the pain was so great.

Wishing you the best during this painful time.

Attached is a photo of Karen holding our new Jack Russell (Daisy) 1.6 years old

Brent and Karen

Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: m919 on June 20, 2011, 05:07:56 AM
sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Conrad on June 20, 2011, 05:15:07 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss Jim. Dogs are better than most people.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: jim snyder on June 20, 2011, 03:54:11 PM
Thank you to everyone for your responses. This little gal slept with me in bed for 21 years.
This was not the best Fathers Day ever, but atleast I know Tiny is not suffering and has been
restored to the chipper little rascal she was for most of her life. God truley knew what he was doing when he made the dog. Like my story said several years ago, dogs are a perfect reflection of God because dog spelled backwards is God. For those who never got to read it I have attached it below, in Tiny's honor of course.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: mjrfd99 on June 20, 2011, 04:14:15 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss Jim.  I so wish they could outlast us.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: jim snyder on June 20, 2011, 09:06:30 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss Jim.  I so wish they could outlast us.

I need to be grateful for the 21 years she was with us, but yes it would be great if they could stick around
longer.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: MrPepsi on June 20, 2011, 09:19:54 PM
So sorry Jim. Never easy.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
 All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... 
 
Author unknown...

 

Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Walker18 on June 20, 2011, 10:33:35 PM
Our condolences, Jim.. Broken hearts from love's lost are difficult to heal, but the course that you took had to be in order for Tiny to experience the least pain,
though it caused you and your wife the most. Blessed in sharing 21 wonderful years together, keeping memories for a lifetime..
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: yoman on June 21, 2011, 07:18:14 AM
Some times the right thing is the hardest thing to do.

Peace
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Mal on June 21, 2011, 09:10:03 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss... they sure leave a huge hole when they leave us...
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Son of Pappy on June 21, 2011, 09:47:54 AM
Think of all the friends awaiting your arrival, dont rush things, they are very patient.  She should be playing with Bella by now, learning to say "I luv you" in puppy speak.
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: Bob Young on June 21, 2011, 01:07:40 PM
 :'(
Animals have personalities that some humans could do well to emulate. We've lost dogs, cats, horses that have broken our hearts to "put down" for various reasons. Their "replacements" have never replaced them in our hearts, but have helped us heal so many times to get back into life. There are times that I can not bring myself to talk about certain pets we've had for the raw emotions they bring back.  But, then I think of all the good times we had together and that helps (sometimes).
We have an 11 1/2 year old "pound dog" that is having trouble getting up from a lying postion, can't go on horse rides or long walks. We both know what's coming and neither my wife or I want to think about it.
The RAINBOW BRIDGE
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: DannyL on June 21, 2011, 08:16:06 PM
Sorry for your loss...

She'll be joining my Daisy (Old English) Groucho & Champion (Giant Schnauzer) , They'll all be having a great time I'm sure!!
Title: Re: Lost one of our dogs this morning
Post by: zgirl on June 22, 2011, 09:01:55 AM
I'm so sorry to read this!  Bill and I are sending big hugs to you and Sue. 

I hate loosing our fur kids.   :'(