I got a t-shirt from my sister 34 years ago, that says, "It's hard to soar with eagles, when you have to deal with so many turkeys". No longer fit into that shirt, but it helps me stay focused on the fact that our lives can be affected by others in a way we don't need or desire, but have to deal with daily. I've been here almost a year now, and it is my favorite landing spot on the web. Joined COG, but for some unexplained reason, I seldomly ever go to the site. I have enjoyed being with everyone on this site, and hope to never depart.
OK, I'm ready for any bashing, now....tomp