Rhino, she'll tell you the same thing if she saw you, ask anyone who's met her. Its about respect and treating each other as equals. She works, I do the laundry, I work, she cuts the grass, whoevers home and whatever needs done gets done. I don't ask for permission to buy anything, I buy what I want when I want it, conversely, she buys what she wants, no matter. She works, I ride, I work, she shops, it evens out, but who's keeping score? Not us, its not important. We don't need a made up day to profess our love on a made up "holiday" because the other 364 days of the year we are doing other things, or like some treat their spouses like s**t and one day they buy flowers and take her out, how demeaning. I don't put her on a pedistal one day a year to let her know how I feel about her, we treat each other the same every day, respect and as equals.